i think it’s stupid why do the MPP (Majlis Perwakilan Pelajar) make all the new undergraduate doing all stupid fool thing. They force you to sing Fresihe2 suka korek hidung ummm umm sedap rasanya.
The orientation is really waste of time. During 1970-1980 it’s much worst the seniors will make all the new undergraduate life miserable by doing all sort of thing such as forcing you to put your face in the toilet bowl and they will flush the toilet water on your face that is call "Royal Bath", beside that they will splash the soak clothes water that has been soak for a few days and you are require to swim on the floor and while the women are require to masturbate in front of the seniors(women) this is done in one of public university in Malaysia that is exclusive for the Bumiputra and has branches throughout Malaysia . This kind of thing doesn’t occured in overseas universities.

I’m on a business trip in Tokyo for a few days. I want to buy some gifts for my friends, colleagues and family. I want something that is tiny, not very expensive (things are damn expensive here !) and must be Japanese style.
I’m thinking of buying some wind bell (furin). But I haven’t thing of anything else yet.
Please give me some advice and suggestions.
Thank you very much !

I put one a few days ago in the balcony of my apartment. I really like it but I don’t want a neighbor to complain. Should I keep it or take it down?

I baked the cake a few days ago and have been allowing it to dry out. Is there a trick to making it look nice in a crystal bowl? Thank you.

Someone asked the question a few days ago about the possibility of changing the name of garden and landscape or creating another category for the the youngsters that are always asking about caring for their weed. I hate to think of anyone contributing to these kids ruining their health, or worse, and maybe those questions should be banned altogether. But while we’re at it, how about another new category for answers only, titled "Don’t have a clue, but feel compelled to answer anyway"?

We are going there in a few days and I want to know if there are water fountains so I can refill a water bottle instead of drinking soda all day. Also, do the parks allow you to bring food into the park?
Also, is there ample restrooms in the parks? I’m traveling with 2 small children.

I bang on the window, have hung windchimes, and sent my small poodle out to "get um", but no avail, they are eating all the seed , 25 pounds in a few days, and scare all the others away. Can anyone give me some advice on how to keep the black birds away? My husband wants me to stop feeding them, but I just can’t do it!

Help me, give me something to work with. I know you guys can help me.

THANK you all for any good hearted advice.

I am married to a woman who has a 2 young girls–6 and 3.

A few days ago, I’m not sure exact what got into her, but she was having a difficult time either trying to get the children to eat, or to behave–I’m not sure exactly what happened, but she started screaming something incoherently. That was when I went into the kitchen to try to diffuse the situation.

She threw a glass against the wall and screamed at the children, "You are my worst f*cking nightmare! I HATE BOTH OF YOU! F*CK YOU!"

I grabbed her by the arm and roughly escorted her into the living room while saying, "You want to act like a 2 year old? Then you’ll get treated like one!" and then forced her into a tiny timeout chair in the corner of the room and made her face the wall. I told her that if she got up, I would personally bend her over my lap right in front of her kids, and I wasn’t joking either. Then I wound up a chiming music box that we always play for the children at bedtime and said, "This should cool your nerves."

Afterwards, I went to calm her children down and read some books along with them in the living room while my wife sulked in the little timeout chair with the music box chimes playing.

Now for the past 4 days, my wife has slept in the guest room and she absolutely refuses to speak to me or even be in the same room with me. I just now looked at her myspace, and she has the status switched to "Divorced" and has deleted me off her list.

Honestly, I was extremely offended and appalled that she would use such venomous language towards her own children for any reason like they were 17 and 18 year olds. And I seriously doubt me calmly saying, "Calm down, take a deep breath" would have worked, either. I wanted to drive home a message that she needs to realize she is the parent–NOT THE CHILD. And by forcing her into the timeout chair, I was showing her she was acting like a child.

Or did I really go too far and just need to start looking for a new apartment?
John: It doesn’t matter whose kids they are. Are you saying that if I see someone beating a child, I should say, "I’m not the dad, so it ain’t MY business!" and go on like nothing is happening?

You do NOT curse at a child, I don’t care who is the parent!
John: Why don’t you just zip it, now? By the number of thumb downs you are getting, it doesn’t look like anybody here is listening to you.